Reprinted
with permission from Whippet-L ~ with sincere appreciation to
Kim Otero, Wheatland whippets!
The
original post:
After much soul searching, I decided to find a home for Tigger
and dropped her off on Sunday. Unfortunately she didn't appreciate
my thoughtfulness of placing her in a home of whippet-loving people
with just her and a mother and child. At the first opportunity
she escaped. Now I'm feeling guilty of placing her. I thought
she would appreciate being the only whippet in a loving household
and not just in the kennels, and affection being shared among
six whippets and a mini-dach. How wrong I was.
Response
from Kim Otero, Wheatland Whippets:
It's very sad to hear that Tigger escaped and I hope she is found
soon. Please don't feel guilty about what happened; it's not your
fault. You unselfishly placed her in a home where she could give
and receive more love, and that is always a good thing. Given
enough time, Tigger will appreciate her new situation.
I've heard many similar
stories over time and it's made me think. I've had considerable
experience over the years with placing adults, rescues, and older
puppies. The reason why this scenario keeps repeating itself over
and over is not because rehoming adult whippets is wrong,
it's because people don't realize how at risk a whippet is during
the transition to a new home.
It is normal canine behavior
for dogs to bond strongly with their homes, regardless of what
kind of home that is. The people, dogs, routine, and environment
are what they are used to, and represent security and safety to
them. Its normal for dogs to want to preserve a secure and
"known" situation; for this species its an important
survival technique. Even very well-socialized dogs have this instinct.
Given that all dogs have
this strong instinct, we then make the mistake of thinking that
the dog has human emotions, intelligence, and motives. We know
that the new home is going to be better for him. We assume the
dog knows this too. We assume he will appreciate this. Both these
assumptions are erroneous because dogs do not have the reasoning
ability to understand these things.
The dog may really like
the new people, and enjoy their company, and perhaps even know
them well enough to have bonded with them somewhat. But the dog
still knows his old home, and will do everything he can to stay
there. Dogs simply cannot fathom that a new situation could be
better than the one he is familiar with. This is too complex a
thought and his mind doesn't work that way.
One of a dogs greatest
fears is to be separated from his pack and familiar environment
- it will make him panic. This is normal canine behavior, and
we should expect this behavior when separating him from his original
home.
Fortunately, canines
as a species are infinitely adaptable. The attachment to a former
home will give way to an attachment to the new home in
time. Again, once a transition is complete, he is just as happy
and secure in the new home as the old one. He never forgets his
former owners and will always be happy to see them, but he doesn't
sit around all day and pine away for them for the rest of his
life. Dogs' minds don't work that way. They adapt.
I feel that newly placed
dogs escape so often because people underestimate the dog's desire
to preserve a known environment, and how high the "flight
risk" is during the transition period. It is the former owner/breeder/rescuer's
responsibility to know this and make sure the new owner understands
this and knows what precautions to take.
Every whippet requires
a different amount of time to bond and adapt, anywhere from a
few days to several weeks. In my experience it usually takes a
week or so (that is, with a home where they get lots of attention
and exercise, and not left alone too much). It is wise to continue
taking extra precautions for as long as several months. Remember,
the dog has no concept of geography. He may think that once he
gets out of the yard, his old home will be right around the corner.
A new owner must be assured that after the transition period,
the whippet will be settled and happy and will act like a normal
pet.
During the transition
period, the whippet's personality and behavior may be unusual.
Besides trying to get back home, he may display unusual traits,
such as depression or anxiety. Reassure the new owner that this
whippet will indeed be the same sweet whippet he's been before
and to be patient and extra careful until he is settled in.
Some recommendations
for new owners of rehomed adult whippets:
- Give extra attention, love and
treats.
- Establish a consistent routine.
- Do not leave the whippet alone
in the yard, even if you are home, at first.
- Even a whippet that has never dreamed
of jumping a fence may panic and try this during the transition
period.
- Stimulate his mind. Do some obedience
and help establish yourself as alpha in a positive way.
- Be loving but firm and set clear
boundaries. This builds confidence.
- Crate the dog if you are
gone, even for a brief time. During the transition period, being
alone can be very frightening.
- Take lots of long leash walks.
- Encourage lots of play and exercise
in your yard.
- Use a comfortable, sturdy martingale
style leash or collar that he cannot slip out of--especially
at the airport! Keep the leash handle looped around your wrist,
and grasp with your hand. Whippets can be surprisingly strong.
No flexi-leads!
- Keep the new dog on lead when outside
the home, don't let him off lead even in a safe dog park until
he is really bonded with you and has good recall.
- Be absolutely obsessive about doors
and gates, especially where children are involved. Be
in control of your household situation.
- Keep ID on your whippet at all
times. Contact the breeder immediately if he gets lost.
Kim Otero
Wheatland Whippets